A view of autism from along the spectrum

It has felt like it’s Autism 7×24 lately. The transition between school programs for one of my sons has moved autism even more to the center (if that’s even possible!) of our busy lives. Even more of our lives over the past few weeks have revolved around various aspects of autism, from school meetings, social skills groups, educational evaluations, and using vacation days to stay home while my son is “in transition” between programs. While I’m happy to do all of it and even proud of how I’ve been able to make a difference, I also admit to feeling rather worn out. It’s easy for me to become wrapped up in the day to day challenges and lose sight of the bigger picture.

While waiting for an appointment last week, I picked up a copy of Time magazine’s Best Photos of 2005 issue. I expected to be impressed with some exceptional photography, but I was not prepared to be touched emotionally. I opened the magazine and I found page after page of pictures of the devastation caused by last December’s tsunami, Katrina’s destruction in the US, and the recent earthquakes in Pakistan. Perspective came back to me bit by bit with each image as I realized how my current challenges pale in comparison to those of many others.

I’ve always found this time of year appropriate for taking a personal inventory and recognizing the many things for which I can be grateful. The experiences of the recent weeks provide a great framework for it. The blessings I’ve been given are many and the burdens are simple in comparison. The goal for me is to continue to recognize and appreciate the rewards that come from facing the day to day challenges. The opportunity is there for the taking. The first step is to keep the proper perspective.